No Condom, No Conversation: A Silent Crisis in Our Communities
This is just a candid observation, not meant to judge or offend anyone. I recently had casual conversations with 40 women, and only about 10 confirmed they use condoms. The rest either smiled or admitted they don’t. This, to me, reflects part of the reason behind the increasing rate of single motherhood in society. I’m not blaming anyone—life happens, and things don’t always go as planned. But if I could offer any advice, it’s this: use protection. Not just to prevent unwanted pregnancies, but to avoid the emotional and financial strain that can come with raising a child alone. I’ve personally had situations where women were okay with unprotected sex if I didn’t bring it up—which honestly worries me. It’s not about being overly cautious, just responsible. Currently, I’m working in a slum area, and I see young single mothers with undernourished children. When asked about the fathers, many say they’re long gone. A simple condom might’ve changed that story. I’m not pointing fingers—just encouraging awareness. These days, some ladies are willing to go raw for quick money, ignoring the consequences. Let’s talk more openly about this. Protection is not just smart—it’s survival.
