Femi Dapson Says Financial Readiness Was Crucial Before Approaching Wife Simi Sanya
Nigerian video director Femi Dapson has shared how financial stability shaped the start of his relationship with his wife, Simi Sanya. He revealed that feeling economically secure was what gave him the confidence to approach her. Dapson explained that earlier in life, he avoided pursuing romantic relationships because he didn’t feel ready financially. While he acknowledges the importance of emotions, he believes a strong financial foundation is essential for building a serious relationship. He recalled meeting Simi for the first time at a stage when he felt he had little to offer. Even though he was interested, he chose not to make a move, thinking it would have been irresponsible without financial security. Their paths crossed again later at a wedding in Akure. By then, Dapson said his career had grown, providing him with the confidence to initiate a conversation that eventually led to marriage. Dapson shared these thoughts during The Love and Money Conversation hosted by Meristem Nigeria, which examined how financial readiness and love intersect in long-term commitments. Describing himself as a “gifter,” he added that financial stability allows couples to express affection more freely and helps avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. His experience, he said, shows that patience and preparation can lead to a healthier, more confident relationship when love is combined with financial readiness.