Timaya Sparks Debate After Advising Children Outside Marriage May Be Better Than Rushing Matrimony

Nigerian singer Timaya has sparked debate online after a video showed him giving candid relationship advice, suggesting it may be better to have children outside marriage than rush into tying the knot. The clip, which has gone viral, features the “Dem Mama” singer alongside Paul Okoye, popularly known as Rudeboy, as they offered guidance to rapper Phyno. Speaking in Pidgin English, Timaya remarked that marriages often fail, implying that having children without formalising a union could be a safer path. “Just born pikin, pikin go grow. This marriage thing no dey work,” he said, drawing laughter from those present. The statement has since stirred mixed reactions on social media, with some criticising him for downplaying marriage, while others defended his view as a reflection of personal experience.

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Daniel Etim Effiong Says He Loves His Wife More Than His Children, Sparks Online Debate

Nollywood actor Daniel Etim Effiong has sparked online reactions after revealing that he places his wife, Toyosi Etim Effiong, above his children in matters of love. The actor made the disclosure during an interview on the Masplantion podcast, where he spoke about love, commitment, and family priorities. Asked if the love he has for his wife is the strongest he has experienced outside of his children, Daniel answered honestly: “I mean, that’s a good question. I would say yes. I love my wife more than my children. My wife comes first before my children, although they hold a very special place in my heart,” he said. The statement has sparked discussions on social media, with fans and followers expressing mixed opinions about his approach to family. Daniel explained that prioritizing his wife reflects his belief in building a solid marital foundation. He noted that a strong relationship between spouses is crucial for maintaining a stable, happy home while raising children.

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Bandits Raid Peze Community In Abuja, Kidnap 16 Including Pastor’s Children And Vigilante Commander’s Wife

Heavily armed gunmen carried out a deadly raid on Peze community in the Byazhi area of Kubwa, Bwari Area Council, within the Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Abuja, abducting at least 16 residents. According to Sahara Reporters, the victims include four children of a local pastor, the wife of a vigilante commander, and her younger sister, who had been visiting the family. The attack took place on Tuesday night between 9:30 p.m. and 10 p.m., with the gunmen moving from house to house, attempting to force their way in. One resident said the assailants had assembled in an unfinished building opposite his home before beginning the operation. “They started banging on my door and moving around the house, shouting to see if anyone would react. The way they operate is that once you respond, they break the window to gain entry,” the resident said. He added that the attackers threatened to kill anyone who refused to open their doors. Unable to enter his house, the gunmen moved on to other homes, eventually abducting several people. The pastor’s four children were taken while he was away, leaving only the youngest at home. The vigilante commander’s family was also targeted. He had just left his home when a neighbour warned him of the attack. Unaware that his own house was surrounded, he rushed toward the scene, only to be blocked and fired upon. The gunmen then entered his home, abducting his wife and her visiting sister, leaving behind the woman’s newborn, who was less than 40 days old. The resident noted that the kidnappers even ate the food the woman had been preparing before taking her. Security operatives later arrived, but the assailants had already fled with their captives. The abductors have since contacted the families, demanding ransom for their release.

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NBA YoungBoy Celebrates 13th Child As He And Jazlyn Mychelle Welcome Baby Girl

NBA YoungBoy and his wife, Jazlyn Mychelle, have expanded their family once again. The rapper took to Instagram on Sunday, February 22, to share that they have welcomed another baby girl. The couple, who already have a son and a daughter together, are now parents of three children. In the video shared online, he excitedly said, “My gangsta had her baby,” before asking Jazlyn how she was feeling after the delivery. She simply responded, “relieved!” Although the couple have not released any photos of their newborn yet, fans are already curious to see who the baby will resemble. The new arrival reportedly brings NBA YoungBoy’s total number of children to 13. According to previous reports by TMZ, the rapper had 12 children with different women prior to this birth. Following the announcement, social media users flooded comment sections with reactions. While many congratulated the couple and admired their growing family, others made lighthearted jokes about needing a chart to keep up with all of the rapper’s kids. NBA YoungBoy expands family with 13th child, wife by his side pic.twitter.com/3AHIHig0i6 — TopMixtapes.com (@topmixtapescom) February 23, 2026

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FG Knows Terror Sponsors but Lacks Courage to Prosecute — Ex-Defence Director Olawunmi

Former Deputy Director of Defence Administration at the Defence Headquarters, Commodore Kunle Olawunmi (retd.), has accused the Federal Government of lacking the courage to prosecute those financing terrorism in Nigeria, despite having intelligence identifying them. In an interview, Olawunmi said religion and socio-cultural divisions remain major drivers of insecurity in the country, lamenting that the situation has worsened since his retirement in 2017. He urged President Bola Tinubu to act decisively, warning that attempts to be politically correct could embolden terrorists. He condemned recent meetings between northern leaders and armed groups, describing them as “an aberration” and “a symptom of a failed state.” According to him, any negotiation with terrorists undermines national authority and could lead to Nigeria’s eventual collapse if unchecked. “The power and security architecture of this country reside only in the Commander-in-Chief of the Armed Forces. If local governments or state officials negotiate with terrorists without federal approval, it sets a dangerous precedent,” Olawunmi said. The retired naval officer claimed that identified terror financiers are still operating freely because of their political connections. He alleged that some of them made vast fortunes during the Buhari administration and continue to wield influence, preventing their arrest or prosecution. “Tinubu should not be afraid of them,” he said. “He should call all intelligence chiefs together and order the arrest of both domestic and foreign sponsors of terrorism. Once they are tried and punished, terrorism will reduce by half.” Olawunmi also criticised the government’s deradicalisation and reintegration programme for repentant terrorists, saying it was a dangerous misapplication of the UN Disarmament, Demobilisation, and Reintegration (DDR) framework. He warned that reintegrating such individuals into the military could have grave long-term consequences for national security. He further argued that Nigeria’s political system enables corruption and dependency on powerful financiers, making it impossible for leaders to confront those who sponsored their rise to power. According to him, “you cannot arrest those who made you,” which explains why terror sponsors remain untouchable. On the handling of Nnamdi Kanu, Olawunmi criticised the government’s approach, describing it as unprofessional and politically motivated. Comparing it with the operation that led to the arrest of former MEND leader Henry Okah, he said Kanu’s rendition from Kenya was “poorly executed” and mishandled by security operatives. While commenting on President Tinubu’s recent pardon of some convicted criminals, Olawunmi said the President has the constitutional prerogative of mercy, adding that such actions may be influenced by diplomatic or intelligence considerations unknown to the public.

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Ese Eriata Blasts Trolls For Shaming Women Who Have Kids Outside Wedlock

Reality TV star Ese Eriata has slammed a social media user who criticized women for having children outside marriage. The exchange began after a follower wrote, “Every girl just dey born anyhow without being married, mmmh.” Reacting to the comment, Ese expressed disappointment at the judgmental mindset of people who fail to understand individual circumstances. “In as much as marriage is a good thing, some people don’t think or wonder why a person chose a certain path. You don’t know my past, you don’t know if I have trauma or have been abused, you don’t know if I have trust or anger issues I’m trying to heal from,” she wrote. She went on to explain that people face different personal battles that might delay marriage, saying some are taking time to study who they want to be with, heal from emotional wounds, or prepare themselves to be a better partner. “You don’t know if I’m mentally ready or still working on myself to become someone’s peace and trophy. All y’all want to do is get on that keypad and type rubbish because commenting is free. Mad people everywhere,” she added. Ese further condemned the double standards of society towards women, pointing out how they are criticized whether they choose to have children or remain unmarried. “You’ll hear them shouting ‘once you are 30+ and no husband, just have your kids,’ and when you do, they’ll say ‘where is the father? Single mother.’ When you wait on God till you’re 40+, they’ll say ‘as beautiful as you are, no child or husband.’ “When God finally brings love or a husband, they’ll say, ‘the man didn’t see younger girls; what is he doing with a single mother?’ And what’s flabbergasting in all of this is that majority of the people saying these things are women,” she lamented. Her response has sparked conversations online, with many praising her for speaking boldly against societal pressure and hypocrisy toward single mothers.

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