There Are Over 5,000 Men In My DMs Wanting To Marry Me – Nkechi Blessing
Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing has spoken out about what she described as relentless and overwhelming attention from men across her social media platforms, saying her private messages are constantly flooded with marriage proposals. The actress shared her frustration on Instagram, explaining that the volume of unsolicited messages has become unmanageable and emotionally draining. According to her, she wakes up daily to thousands of new messages from men expressing romantic interest, turning her inboxes into what she called a mess. She said repeated attempts to curb the situation have failed, despite blocking accounts and trying to change her privacy settings. The attention, she noted, has continued nonstop, leaving her exhausted. While clarifying that she is currently single, Nkechi stressed that she is not actively looking for a relationship, yet the messages keep pouring in on WhatsApp and other social media platforms. “I have tried everything I can to change my number on Facebook but I don’t know. I don’t know which video is trending; I wake up to thousands of messages different kinds of men. I don block tire. I am single, but I no dey find man; I’m not searching. “My WhatsApp is a mess. I have other 5,000 messages from different kinds of species called men. I am tired. How many be my body wey over 5,000 men wan marry me…” The actress’ outburst has since sparked conversations online about boundaries, privacy, and the pressures public figures face on social media. I have over 5000 men in my dm saying they want to marry me, I don't know which video trended online, please I am single but I am not searching, stop texting my number" — Nkechi Blessings cries out pic.twitter.com/28Xa9tWIwu — TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) January 20, 2026