BBNaija Star Vee Opens Up About Marriage Pressure As She Approaches 30
BBNaija star Vee has opened up about the constant pressure she faces about marriage as she approaches 30. She revealed that even friends she barely speaks to suddenly reach out just to ask about her love life, completely ignoring her career and personal struggles.
“Nobody ever mentally prepared me for the amount of conversations I would have to have as a woman turning 30 this year,” Vee said. She shared a recent encounter with a married friend living abroad: “Hi V, oh my god, I’ve been trying to get a hold of you, it’s been so long…Anyway, I was praying and got something…When are you getting married, husband? Like bro, have you seen the price of groceries? She didn’t even ask me about my work, the thing putting a roof over my head. She only cared if there’s a man in my life.”
Vee admitted that while she wants marriage and children in the future, she’s focused on her career and personal growth. “Let’s be honest, the current climate isn’t looking great. I’m focusing on work and what’s next for me. Husband, marriage, children? I think not—for now. I’m not in control of when I’ll meet the right guy, and I’m definitely not settling for the wrong one.”
She also recalled a funny moment in London when a friend held her hand, looked at her finger, and said, “Hopefully by the next time I see you, there’ll be a ring on this finger.” Vee laughed and said, “Guys, I’m not in control. I’m not God. Let’s just leave it at that, man.”
Vee’s candid reflections highlight the societal pressure women face around marriage and the importance of focusing on one’s own timeline.
"I'm not in control of that. I'm not God” — BBNaija star Vee reacts to marriage questions as she approaches 30.
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