Phyna Says Grief Has No Timetable After Facing Backlash Over Moving On Quickly Following Sister’s Death
Phyna, Big Brother Naija Season 7 winner, has addressed criticism over appearing to move on quickly after the death of her sister, Ruth.
A video showing her at a nightclub with actress Regina Daniels shortly after the burial drew backlash online, with some accusing her of being insensitive.
On X, Phyna shared a heartfelt message:
“Grief has no manual, no fixed face, and no timetable. The fact that I choose to keep living, smiling, or sharing moments does not erase the pain I carry. Respect the process, even if you do not understand it. If you cannot extend compassion, then at least extend silence.”
Her words underscore that grieving is deeply personal, and outward expressions of life and joy don’t erase the pain she feels.
The backlash highlights society’s tendency to judge public figures for how they mourn. While some defended her right to process grief on her own terms, others criticized her actions.
Phyna has also voiced dissatisfaction with Dangote Group over her sister’s burial, accusing the company of negligence and insensitivity. Her response shows her determination to navigate grief in her own way while remaining resilient under public scrutiny.
